My hopes

We are watching a movie together right now. It is making me think about marriages. I hope that John and I will be the couple..still married...60 years from now...that smiles wryly at each other when younger people ask us how we stayed together so long. We'll tell them you must love each other at different times than the other. We'll have our lives so intertwined with so many years of memories and moments and fights and love and hate that when the first of us dies... the other will never be whole. Is this morbid?