In other news....

I've been in contact with a psychotherapist concerning Aidan. It is WONDERFUL to have someone to talk to that knows about profoundly gifted children. She has validated many things and I've learned that I'm doing a lot of things right. I've also learned that I've done one thing WAY WRONG.... trying to hide her intellect, feeling uncomfortable discussing it, etc. I've apparently done damage to Aidan by showing her (albeit subconsciously) that something's "wrong" with her. My fear of not wanting her to be "bigheaded" has been detremental to her psyche. So, from now on, I am to be open and honest about her being smart. I'm to applaud her and talk openly about her abilities so that she feels that its a wonderful thing. For me, however, it's such a switch from mainstream thinking. If you're musically talented, athletic, or a great artist... you're supposed to be applauded. But if you have a superior intellect, then you keep quiet or you'll be considered a braggart. Oh, and for all those schoolyard Moms who give the silent treatment... I'm supposed to openly admit without any qualms about her ability... with a raised brow and a challenging air about myself. LOL! (a little easier said then done)

Of course, it stings to hear that you've unintentionally been hurting your kid and hard to face up to the fact that you have too many personal hang-ups.